From the Called to Love Podcast with James Levisee and Brian Knoedl

Building Trust and Clarity Through Affirmation

What happens when leaders step away from routine meetings to truly invest in one another? In this episode of the Called to Love Podcast, James and Brian share insights from a recent board retreat where intentional affirmation and Spirit-led conversations created unity, deeper trust, and fresh vision:contentReference[oaicite:0]{index=0}.

The Power of Affirmation

At the retreat, each leader took time to affirm the others. Instead of focusing on tasks or performance, they named qualities, character, and moments of value they saw in one another. This practice, simple but profound, opened hearts and built bonds that will shape the team’s future.

Why Identity Matters

Jesus gave His disciples identity when He called them. In the same way, leaders today are called to see people not just for their roles, but for their God-given value. Affirming identity brings clarity and helps individuals know they are trusted, chosen, and vital to the mission.

Creating a Space for Connection

Getting away from the normal environment was key. An overnight retreat at Subiaco Monastery in Arkansas provided the quiet, beauty, and space for leaders to reflect and connect. Breaking bread together, walking the grounds, and sharing stories created an atmosphere where relationships could deepen naturally.

Exercises That Made an Impact

Leaders shared one word that described their current journey, and later two little-known facts about themselves. These simple exercises unveiled powerful backstories, highlighted shared experiences, and created new appreciation for each other’s journeys.

Lessons for Any Group

Though the retreat was for board members, the principles apply everywhere—families, churches, small groups, or workplaces. Affirmation, listening, and intentional time together always create trust and unity. Encouraging others isn’t just good leadership; it’s biblical and Spirit-led.

Moving Forward With Clarity

• Affirm intentionally: Call out the good you see in others.
• Provide identity: Remind people they are chosen and valued.
• Change the setting: Step away from routine to focus on connection.
• Ask meaningful questions: Use prompts that reveal stories and journeys.
• Let the Spirit lead: Trust God to reveal deeper truths as you encourage others.

Until next time, may you find peace and love—and always remember: you are called to love.